Day 70 - Thursday 7th July - Part One
Karen hadn't had a good night sleep due to a combination of frequent bowel movements and an inability to get comfy.
This morning was not a good morning for kp. One of the night staff hadn't helped matters by leaving kp feeling like she was a burden.
kp:- "Can I be moved onto my back ?"
NightStaff Member :- "You've just been moved 10 minutes ago"
I suggested discussing this with the Ward Sister, but kp felt that the night staffmember concerned wasn't the kind of person who would respond well to criticism. Instead Karen is going to approach a member of the night staff she gets on well with and see if she can solve the problem in a round about way.
She had a good breakfast. I read out various blog comments and a letter from my Auntie Sue, which kp appreciated. In the letter Auntie Sue mentioned how much she would like to meet Mrs Overall. We know what you mean Auntie Sue, we are very fond of her also !! She is a little eccentric but VERY lovable.
Lots of tears this morning. I think the night incidents left Karen very aware of how reliant she is on others and brought home how disabled she is at the moment.
kp:- "I just want to be able to turn myself in my bed, walk to the loo..."
She then looked at a photo of herself, myself and our niece Sophie on the hospital wall
kp:- "At least on that photo I was just overweight....."
For the first time she felt angry towards the driver of the offending vehicle.
The physio came in in the middle of the tears to measure kp up for a wheelchair. She was very considerate and offered to come back at a better time, but I asked her what she wanted. When she told kp :-
kp (in tears) :- I don't want to be in a wheelchair, I want to walk !!
It's hard in the blog to get across how down she felt this morning and how upset she was. I complimented her on how well she is doing and the fact that it was amazing that she hadn't had more moments like this. But nothing I could say could really help. She needs to cry sometimes and readjust her thoughts as to her predicament and today was one of those days.
She instructed me to continue with the bedbath as per usual which I did, but it was quite sad to see her washing her face, cleaning her teeth and crying at the same time.
By the time the bedbath had finished, she had stopped crying and was ready for a snooze.
But no time for a snooze, one of the nurses came in to redress some wounds. Then the doctor to discuss Karen's pain medication which kp had requested be upped. He also gave her a good counselling session about her situation. He's great this Doctor by the way, very naturally concerned about his patients. He asked if she wanted to thump anyone. He was standing on karen's weak arm side, I was standing by the possible thumping arm and told the Doctor this. It got a smile from kp.
The Doctor also said at one point :-
Doctor :- "You know Karen, you also have Yewt on your side" (Youth)
Nothing was said about this at the time, but afterwards, I was giving kp a pepp talk and threw in :-
"And you also have Yewt on your side"
Smile No. 2 in the bag !
No lunch for kp. She really wasn't in the mood for it. In fact she only stayed in the chair for 30 minutes. I didn't argue with her on either point 'cos I knew where she was psychologically at that moment.
I hoisted her back into bed and got her comfy and she was out like a light.
The consultant came not long after and agreed about upping the Fentanol Patch to 75mg to ease the pain.
This afternoon or this evening, Mr Cross and Mr Nanu (from Sunderland) should be coming over to check kp's pelvic progress. This should be interesting.
This morning was not a good morning for kp. One of the night staff hadn't helped matters by leaving kp feeling like she was a burden.
kp:- "Can I be moved onto my back ?"
NightStaff Member :- "You've just been moved 10 minutes ago"
I suggested discussing this with the Ward Sister, but kp felt that the night staffmember concerned wasn't the kind of person who would respond well to criticism. Instead Karen is going to approach a member of the night staff she gets on well with and see if she can solve the problem in a round about way.
She had a good breakfast. I read out various blog comments and a letter from my Auntie Sue, which kp appreciated. In the letter Auntie Sue mentioned how much she would like to meet Mrs Overall. We know what you mean Auntie Sue, we are very fond of her also !! She is a little eccentric but VERY lovable.
Lots of tears this morning. I think the night incidents left Karen very aware of how reliant she is on others and brought home how disabled she is at the moment.
kp:- "I just want to be able to turn myself in my bed, walk to the loo..."
She then looked at a photo of herself, myself and our niece Sophie on the hospital wall
kp:- "At least on that photo I was just overweight....."
For the first time she felt angry towards the driver of the offending vehicle.
The physio came in in the middle of the tears to measure kp up for a wheelchair. She was very considerate and offered to come back at a better time, but I asked her what she wanted. When she told kp :-
kp (in tears) :- I don't want to be in a wheelchair, I want to walk !!
It's hard in the blog to get across how down she felt this morning and how upset she was. I complimented her on how well she is doing and the fact that it was amazing that she hadn't had more moments like this. But nothing I could say could really help. She needs to cry sometimes and readjust her thoughts as to her predicament and today was one of those days.
She instructed me to continue with the bedbath as per usual which I did, but it was quite sad to see her washing her face, cleaning her teeth and crying at the same time.
By the time the bedbath had finished, she had stopped crying and was ready for a snooze.
But no time for a snooze, one of the nurses came in to redress some wounds. Then the doctor to discuss Karen's pain medication which kp had requested be upped. He also gave her a good counselling session about her situation. He's great this Doctor by the way, very naturally concerned about his patients. He asked if she wanted to thump anyone. He was standing on karen's weak arm side, I was standing by the possible thumping arm and told the Doctor this. It got a smile from kp.
The Doctor also said at one point :-
Doctor :- "You know Karen, you also have Yewt on your side" (Youth)
Nothing was said about this at the time, but afterwards, I was giving kp a pepp talk and threw in :-
"And you also have Yewt on your side"
Smile No. 2 in the bag !
No lunch for kp. She really wasn't in the mood for it. In fact she only stayed in the chair for 30 minutes. I didn't argue with her on either point 'cos I knew where she was psychologically at that moment.
I hoisted her back into bed and got her comfy and she was out like a light.
The consultant came not long after and agreed about upping the Fentanol Patch to 75mg to ease the pain.
This afternoon or this evening, Mr Cross and Mr Nanu (from Sunderland) should be coming over to check kp's pelvic progress. This should be interesting.
posted by David Pollard at Thursday, July 07, 2005
1 Comments:
Been at conference for a few days and caught up with the blog again last night, was going to write wow what progress and loved the picture in the hoist, what a beaming smile, but just read todays blog and can see how upset you are today and I feel crap because there is nothing we can do to make you better. But to keep repeating the positives, you are doing brilliant and progressing well and each picture I can see a massive improvement. Keep up the excellent progress, keep your chin right up and keep your bum covered up, because David seems to be getting fruity, you know where a kiss leads to, keep him off it!!
Sue xx
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